Monday, June 9, 2008

When One Small Step is One Giant Leap

When I was 12, I was a gregarious nutcase - strung out from 12 moves (the parents didn't like to settle too long) in a few countries - one of those kids who is outgoing by nature and necessity. But I was tired. And anxious. I went to a private school in TO. It was a rough assimilation but eventually I fit in. It was a place for smart girls who cared about being smart and worked their asses off. Especially me because that was the only way I could stay afloat. Which only made me more tired.

Of course, my parents thought I was a genius! :-) My sister was the willowy, attractive high-achiever in the arts. She had difficulty taking tests, while I loved them. (I still love a good test. I get off on that sparky feeling that only comes from being tested and succeeding. I never know how I'm going to save myself but I seem to find a way, which thrills me and reinforces my awareness of resiliency...) But I was not good with failure.

So afeared was I of fucking up, let's just say it really took a toll. I was a creative child, a creative adolescent. I wanted to write (I know, I've mentioned this before in other posts...); I was afraid to write. Eventually I lost the urge to write. People would ask me why I'd stopped. "You were so talented" (my mother would say). I stopped because I'd never started. Burbling creativity was a touchstone for my (far more insistent) urge to repress.

Per usual, I have no idea how I've managed to natter on so incessantly when this post was not supposed to be about me.

It's supposed to be about a terrific 12-year old blogger I discovered a couple of months ago. Her name is Tavi and her blog is wryly entitled "Style Rookie". This girl is adorable, irrepressible and (from the looks of it) wise beyond her years. She manages to write entirely age-appropriately but with a sassy undertone that belies her age. She takes great photos of herself. Photos that reinforce my belief that style isn't learned. Or, at least, if it is - it's learned very, very young. And she's a veritable marketing machine. Can't tell you how this girl delights me. Such spirit, such exuberance, such confidence!

The amateur forecaster in me suggests you keep your eye on this one, because - take it from someone who's been reading vogue lo these 25 years - the future of fashion rests on the broadening shoulders of girls like her. Let's support them, shall we? Encourage them to strive. Offer up our experience as ballast. In failure and success, they're going to shape the world... Just like we do now. One post at a time.

12 comments:

  1. I feel you on "not good with failure." I'll check out Style Rookie but I'm always scared I'm going to be arrested if I comment on the blog of someone who is young enough to be my daughter.

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  2. Definetly one of those people who thrive on the success after a test. (If it counts for anything, I think your writing here is absolutely fantastic and you are about as creative as I can handle) :)

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  3. She's pretty awesome, alright.

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  4. I'm with WB on this one...I'm not even going to touch this blog! It's fine for you stately Ladi bloggers, but it's my arse the cops will bum if she goes missing...lol

    No, No, I'll pass on this 'hot suggestion'!

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  5. OK! So I had a look (i couldn't help) and I've got two words 'lonely girl'...burn me at the stake if you must!

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  6. Loved reading this. It is exciting when talent is instinctive isn't it? KC

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  7. Wendy: Something tells me we're not the only ones... You know, it never occurred to me that I could be arrested! After all, her content is so innocent. As is my readership :-)

    Miss C: Tavi or me?! :-)

    Jill: Thank you so much for your really lovely comment. I appreciate it so much...

    Enc and Trend: Amazing she's just 12, huh?

    Hey IM: Re comment 1 see WB reply above. (I'm obviously clueless?) Re comment 2: I don't see it that way. And I hope you are wrong, wrong, wrong!

    Thanks KC - It is a wonderful thing!

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  8. I love the word "natter" I am going to steal it!

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  9. You two are such copy cats :-)

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